Three Ways To Find The Perfect
ProposalFor Your Girlfriend
1. Find the “Personal” Touch
So, your girlfriend likes restaurants. Well guess what? So
does everyone else! You need to dig for those unique and special things about
your girlfriend that stand out, and use them as your starting point for
proposal inspiration. Nothing speaks louder than a proposal that says, “I love
you and understand you deeply” at the same time.
If you’re stuck for ideas, grab a piece of paper and think
back to all the memorable moments while you two were dating. What are her
favorite things to do? What place does she hold dear to her heart? If she grew
up on the beach, maybe you could take her to a high cliff near a magnificent
beach where she grew up, and arrange for her to see the words, “Michelle, will
you marry me?” written in giant letters on the sand down below as the sun sets.
As another example: I once knew a girl who was totally
obsessed with Superman. So in this case, instead of parachuting into a party to
propose, why not do it in a Superman costume? See where I’m going here? Your
first step to a perfect proposal is making a list of all the things that are
special to your loved one and using them as inspiration for your proposal.
2. Ask Her Friends and Family
Believe it or not, no matter how long you’ve been dating,
you’ll almost always discover some new “little known facts” about your
girlfriend by simply asking her family and close friends. While these hidden
gems might not spark a proposal idea themselves, they’ll certainly guide you in
the right direction and further inspire you.
3. Find the WOW Factor
Want to know if your proposal will be exceptional? Explain
your proposal idea to a female friend and if she isn’t “mouth-hitting-the-floor-with-astonishment”
surprised, go back to the drawing board! I’m serious. This is the most
important moment in her life (and yours!) If the proposal stinks, what’s she
going to think about the years ahead? Some people say that you should keep
proposals “safe” or “simple” by doing something that everyone’s already done
before, but considering 80% of women said their proposals were less romantic
than they’d hoped for, isn’t that telling you something? While most men spend
lots of money on the ring, they often lack originality, which leaves the woman
feeling disappointed.
In conclusion, if your proposal doesn’t excite friends and
family, it certainly won’t excite your wife-to-be.
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